As someone who does the same thing when very emotional, I sympathize with the girl. I remember once I was strongarmed by my Mom into making a speech at my father's retirement party--I knew I was emotional and would cry and this would happen and I didn't want to do it. But she pushed me and I did. And that started happening and my Mom blurted out, "For heaven's sake, Sharon, he's not dying."

That stung me so much. I was unable to control this genuine emotion of love for my Dad and she embarrassed me in front of everyone.

Now he is dead, and now I even feel a little pissed at her comment.

Some people can't help it. It isn't lack of maturity, it's just how we're wired.

So...some perspective.